Main office: Bryanston, Johannesburg · Office in Kampala, Uganda
Client question

Can You Make Someone Love You?

It is one of the most searched love questions in the world. Here is my honest answer as a traditional healer — what spiritual work can do, and what it should never do.

“Nahabu, can you make him love me?” “Can you make her fall for me again?” I hear this every week from clients in the USA, Australia and beyond. Behind the question is real pain: you love someone, and you want that love to come back to you. My answer is honest. I cannot create love from nothing, and I would not force a heart that has no feeling for you. But where a bond already exists, or where love is blocked by something outside the two of you, spiritual work can open the way.

Make Someone Love You
Can you make someone love you

The short answer

Love cannot be manufactured, but it can be awakened, cleared and strengthened. If there is a real connection between you — a past relationship, strong attraction, or feelings that were pushed down — I can read it and work on it spiritually. If the reading shows no bond at all, I will tell you that too, because pushing work where there is nothing to awaken only wastes your time and money.

When spiritual work can open a heart

  • An ex who still has feelings but is held back by pride, anger or other people — see get your ex back.
  • A partner who has grown cold because of bad energy, haters or stress.
  • A crush who has not noticed you yet, where the attraction is there but has not opened — see how to make your crush fall for you.
  • A partner afraid to commit because of spiritual blockages — see make him commit and marry you.
  • Love blocked by family or in-laws who stand between you.

When it cannot, or should not

  • When the reading shows the person has no bond with you at all.
  • When the person is violent, controlling or abusive. I will not bring that person back; your safety comes first.
  • When the aim is to punish, trap or control someone. That is not love, and I do not do it.
  • When the love you need is the one for yourself, after deep heartbreak — then healing comes first. See healing after heartbreak.
“I do not build love from nothing. I remove what stands between two hearts and let the love that is there breathe again.”— Psychic Nahabu

What about free will?

People in the USA and Australia often ask whether love work takes away a person’s free will. In my tradition, the work does not turn a person into someone else. It clears negative energy, cuts interference, calms anger and links two spirits, so the person can feel again what was already in their heart. Their choice remains theirs. That is why the results feel natural: the person comes back because they want to.

How I find out if the love is there

With your names, date of birth, photo and palm picture, and the same details of the person you love, I read the bond between you. I see whether the feelings are alive, what is blocking them and what can be done. Then I explain your options clearly before any work begins. You can do this privately; see how a love reading works on WhatsApp.

What to do while the work moves

  • Do not chase or beg; give the spiritual work room to move.
  • Stay kind and calm if the person reaches out.
  • Look after yourself; confidence draws love back.
  • Watch for signs, and tell me what you notice. See should I contact my ex after a love ritual.

My honest word

Can you make someone love you? Not from nothing — but you can open a heart that is closed by pain, people or bad energy. I am a healer, not the Almighty, so I never promise 100%. Most clients begin to see signs in 3 days to 2 weeks; read how long spiritual work takes.

Questions about making someone love you

Can a love ritual work on a specific person?

Yes, the work is always for a specific person. It works best where a real bond or attraction already exists.

Will the love feel real?

Yes. The work clears what blocks the person’s feelings, so when they come close again, it is their own heart speaking.

Can you make someone leave their partner for me?

I read every case first. I will not break a happy home or harm anyone, and I tell you honestly what I see.

Honest note: I am a traditional healer, not the Almighty, so I never guarantee results. My work is spiritual work for adults (18+) and does not replace a doctor, lawyer or other professional. Please read the disclaimer.

Psychic Nahabu, traditional healer

Psychic Nahabu

Traditional healer with psychic abilities, originally from Uganda. Main office in Bryanston, Johannesburg, with an office in Kampala. I offer private love and relationship consultations to clients in Louisiana and across the USA, Australia, France and Singapore. More about me.

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Ready to talk about your love life?

Send a message on WhatsApp and tell me what is happening. I will listen first, then explain honestly how traditional guidance can help.