How to Stop a Divorce and Save Your Marriage

Hearing the word “divorce” from the person you married can feel like the ground disappearing under your feet. Many people contact me in exactly that moment, asking how to prevent him from divorcing them — or her. As a traditional healer gifted with spiritual powers, I act quickly to stop a divorce and save the marriage, when the marriage bond is still worth saving.

Stop a Divorce

What pushes a marriage toward divorce

• constant fighting that has made both partners tired and cold;
• another person who has come between you;
• family members pushing one partner to leave;
• bad luck, negative energy or spiritual attacks on the home;
• love that faded slowly until one partner “checked out”.

How I work to stop a divorce

1. Urgent reading: I read your marriage straight away to see what is really driving the divorce and whether the bond can be saved.
2. Calming the conflict: with my powers and the ancestors, I calm the anger and bitterness in the home.
3. Removing interference: I cut the influence of the person or family members pulling you apart and cleanse bad luck with natural herbs (see spiritual cleansing).
4. Re-binding your hearts: I strengthen the marriage bond so that love and commitment return, and protect your union with a marriage blessing.

Why acting early matters

The sooner the work begins, the easier it is to turn a marriage around — before bitter words become final decisions. If your partner has already left the home, the work is still possible, but contact me as soon as you can.

Signs the marriage is turning around

• less talk of divorce, or delays in the process;
• calmer conversations and fewer fights;
• your partner spending more time at home or with you;
• affection and small kindnesses returning.

Is your marriage worth saving?

Before I begin work on a marriage, I read it honestly. These questions help you see what I look for:

1. Is there still love underneath the anger? Many marriages close to divorce still have a living bond.
2. Did the trouble come from inside or outside? In-laws, a third person or bad luck can be removed; violence and constant disrespect cannot be fixed by spiritual work.
3. Are both of you still talking? Even arguments mean there is still contact to build on.
4. Are there children who would gain from peace at home?

Matching the work to the cause

What to do while the work is happening

• Stop the blame for a while — even if you feel right, let the arguments rest.
• Do one kind thing every day without expecting anything back.
• Avoid big decisions, such as moving out or signing papers, if you can delay them.
• Keep the children out of adult conflicts.
• Tell me about every change, good or bad, so I can guide and strengthen the work.

After the storm passes

When talk of divorce fades, protect what you saved. Many couples I help ask for a renewal and protection blessing to strengthen the marriage against future interference. Talk honestly about what nearly broke you, and keep the habits that brought you back together.

How long does it take to stop a divorce?

Some marriages calm within weeks; others need longer, especially when lawyers or family are already involved. The earlier you contact me, the better the chances. I never promise a date, but I tell you honestly what the reading shows.

My honest word

I do not guarantee results, because I am not the Almighty. If you are in a marriage where you are being hurt or threatened, I will not work to keep you there — your safety comes first. For every other marriage, I give the work my full gift, and many couples I have helped are the ones who send others to me. If the divorce has already happened, read how to reunite after divorce. Start with a private traditional love consultation.

Questions about stopping a divorce

Psychic Nahabu

Traditional healer with psychic abilities, originally from Uganda. Main office in Bryanston, Johannesburg, with an office in Kampala. I offer private love and relationship consultations to clients in Louisiana and across the USA, Australia, France and Singapore. More about me.